So I recently moved to LA from South Africa and I have discovered many things.
The 1st thing I discovered is that, culture shock is VERY real.
It is both brutal and traumatic. Goldfish die from it.
I will write about that another time.
The other thing I have discovered is that while every 4th person here is a writer / actor, 2 of the other 3 are coaches
And every one of these coaches is talking about and promising a breakthrough.
And so they should.
Why else would you go to a coach and pay them money unless they could help you with a result big enough that would be worth the investment?
When I use the term Breakthrough, I’m not just talking about a massive realization of some deep part of your psyche.
Most good healers can do that.
Nor am I talking about merely taking your business to it’s “next level”.
Most good business coaches can do that.
When I talk about Breakthrough Coaching, I am talking about breaking through UNCONSCIOUS blockages and patterns specifically.
This, not many people really know how to do.
There can only be a Breakthrough of this type where there is an unconscious blockage.
Absolutely EVERY human being on the planet starts off in life with (at least) one of these areas of blockage.
There are only 3 areas of human endeavor where there can be a blockage :
Money (or any form of remuneration)
Health (which is unique from the other 2 as it requires no 2nd person)
Now, the factors that govern these blockages are UNCONSCIOUS.
That means you cannot simply “try harder”.
You’ve tried your best up to now.
Mine was a money block.
Despite having great potential and an illustrious entrepreneurial resume, I just could not make money.
I was ALWAYS busy but always BROKE!!
And I bought the self development books!
AND READ THEM!!
Some of them 3 or 4 times over.
Yet still, there I was, a tragic, broke, pile of wasted potential.
“How come I’m broke GODDAMIT??!! It makes no sense!!”
I’d ponder on this enigma all the time.
I discovered that there were other people like me.
There were other people who had this same type of bewilderment but in OTHER life areas.
Good looking, beautiful soul people who were alone and could not get in to relationships.
Or kept on getting into the same wrong relationships.
“How come I’m alone GODDAMIT??!! it makes no sense!!”
And then people that tried their very best to take care of their health and yet are STILL plagued with disease, operations and constant medication…
“How come I’m sick GODDAMIT??!! it makes no sense!!”
Everyone’s got one.
When I talk about a Breakthrough, I’m talking about breaking through a blockage or pattern that you’ve been plagued with your whole life specifically in these 3 areas.
And you wanna know what the most MIND-BLOWING thing about all of this is?
It’s the *same healing process* for all 3 areas of blockage!
Is that not amazing??
A money blockage is not about money.
A relationship blockage is not about relationships.
And a health blockage is not about health.
It’s all about one thing.
The same thing.
You see there are automatic functionalities of the mind that you only really started taking control over in your early teens.
One of them is the process of creating conclusions and beliefs.
The Shadow (as it in known in Jungian psychology) is the name for the collective of negative beliefs that get formed in the human mind before puberty.
Imagine a machine in your mind that creates beliefs.
Not just any beliefs, core beliefs. The lifetime type.
And there is 5 year old child in charge of this machine.
You get the picture.
As a Breakthrough Coach, I help my clients uncover these shadow beliefs and make them conscious.
This is how we turn off the “auto-pilot” mode that has been keeping the patterns in loop.
Maybe I should call it something else…
What do you think?